Uh my topic is on the uh giving and getting consent. Good digital parenting. I hope you guys are seeing my slides. Well, uh it's all about, you can see my son over there.Uh He's 12 years old and it's all about the digital parenting and giving and getting the consent. Uh What, what is consent? I mean, how can I discuss this with my child? It's all about the online consent and the offline concept as far as concerned, all of us know that the internet world is the trickiest is for the Children, not only for the Children, for us, all the adults also. So it is filled with the various information coming all around the globe. So there are so many dilemmas of the mind and furia of inappropriate content and no social media restrictions. So there should be the parental control over that. And what are the steps of the good digital parenting? The steps of the good digital parenting side? Talk with your kids. Talk often be open and direct, stay calm, educate yourself online only, you know about the technological field and the technical enhancement you can carry along with the child. So you need to educate yourself. You need to search online for whatever you don't understand.

Try out the app site, explore possible parenting tips and when it all comes about the digital parenting and giving the consent. So you need to do what you need to do. We need to do the explore here and celebrate. We need to go online with our child and explore their digital role, the digital role of the child. And we must be a good digital role model ourselves. We should carve our one bad habit, digital habits that we have within ourselves. We should show our child how to collaborate and be kind online that is so alone with the child and from each other and have fun. Uh And I think it's, it's visible. Are you guys enjoying? Yeah. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. And um while talking about uh what are the steps of the good digital parenting and how to set the consent and do all the things we have to use. The parental control being the parent is really the toughest job all around the globe. So we should use the parental content. We should set the ground rules and enforce the consequences. We should be trained. We should tell our child and educate them that they should be trained and followed. But don't stop. You have to say the consent and time limits your keys by routinely check the privacy setting on the social media monitor your PS US and your screen time, discuss and sign a family safety so that your child feel very comfortable with you.

And what should you do the next uh what you should do next is that uh what you need to do and ha what you have to do is that you should talk repeatedly. I am saying I'm telling you is that you should talk until and unless you talk until and unless you express and until and unless you know your kid, then the things only go in the right path. So it's a talk. What is talk, talk to your child about online sexual. There are a lot of ways like verbal sexual abuse or by the photography or by the different medium, this can be the sexual abuse. So start a conversation and listen to the conscience of your child, be friend to them, be very much friendlier. So that this year with you isn't everything. Upgrade the ground rules about the way you use technology as a family. If you are reaching the youtube and if you do not allow your child to use the youtube that doesn't work. So you should agree the ground rules. And if you learn the platforms and ask that your child loves, take an interest in their online life, know how to use the tools, apps and setting that can help to keep your child safe. Then there are a lot of digital dilemmas. Ok?

I have a con and co to the floor. Uh, your five year old daughter, suppose you have a five year old daughter and she wants to go on youtube to look for her favorite cartoon characters. What do you do? What do you do? Your son has been bullied on Facebook. Some other friends at T school have been post nasty comments on this timeline. What you do as a parent, what you should do and what I should do as a parent is that we should do the controlling. We should have the confident in our child and we should be casual. Controlling is about the tempted d stop essays to online activity. If you don't know what else to do, you should be confident, the knowledge and the confidence to discuss the issues in the family and increase the rules and talk with your child together. We should be casual. Sometimes we end up ignoring the online activity and our child's activity.

So in that case, we have to do that. We should be talking with our kids about the online safety. There are a lot of discussions. Most, most of what we do is we forgot to talk with them and they feel so sad until and unless we become so much friendlier with them, they are so much that they don't want to share anything. And uh it becomes a very ridiculous situation, you know. So there are a lot of topics of the discussion. So you talk with your child about the online city. What is the pure amount of the time for to be online? What are the good times of the day to be online or offline? Where would your device go at night? Where should you go and not on online? What can you do to stay safe and private online? What consequences should be there if you break our safety online rules, what should you do if you see something that upsets your mind, the things you should always discuss with your child. There are a lot of parent guide for the educational technology also because I as outside as our teens, they go to the school they take should also be de defined.

The education technology or the tech is the study and the practice of teaching and learning processes and strategies that incorporated devices, apps program and the media. So all these things, even the tech savvy, both the tech savvy and the tech hesitant parents are not always familiar with the all of the education technology. So they should try to make them familiar so that it becomes the easy assays to share with their Children with their Children and they feel excited and they can share each and everything so easily. Even the most tech savvy teens need added guidance. You know, there is a common assumption that Children and these are digital natives. They are more knowledgeable about how to best use that technology than adults is that necessarily true do you think? But that's not necessarily true. Even Children who are very comfortable with trying out new devices and apps need the guidance of their parents and teachers on how to use those tools in the very positive and the very sensitive, safe way and in a very productive manner. A beach of the wisdom and common sense also come in handy. So your parents and teacher, even those who may not be all that tech savvy have something to offer young people in terms of how to appropriately use technology. So how is student has to use technology?

They should try to find and analyze resources and materials code and programs, your digital stories, digital citizenship and how the teachers have to use the technology that should be home, friendly, home school communication should come in between and it should be friendly, better student feedback.

What is the school program policy for protecting the students, information and data privacy? These things are very much entertained. Are all the apps and program teachers and the Children uh in front of the classroom? Is there the payroll of the printer right place at school to prevent from coming in contact with the inappropriate contents? What accounts do a student has as part of their enrollment in the school? Is it the email? Is it a Google too or is it the other means? So all this Google and all these things, what are there and how most time you are going to provide your Children um the time, how much excitement you have to give them the tablet, but you should keep the tablet. But there should be some ground rules that have to come along with. This should be the time limit, there should be the restriction. There should be the apps which has to be controlled with not to be controlled and the content. What type of content your child should be made familiar and peculiar with, there are a lot of issues that have been uh coming along with the digital parenting with the techno arena high enhancement and with that comes the cyberbullying which we should prevent from. And there are a lot of kids to help stop the cyberbullying, especially for the kids and the teens. Normally, what happens is that the child and the teens think that it's their fault. No, you have to know that it's not their fault.

You must not blame yourself, don't respond or re retaliate it. If you can remove yourself from the situation, if you cannot sometimes humor disarms or distract a person from bullying, save the, tell the person to stop, reach out for help use available, take tools, protect your account.

If someone you know, is being bullied, take action or if you do all these things then and if you uh yeah, thank you so much. I seeing so much uh of uh messages in the chat box and that's really the the encouragement. Uh I, I'm running out of the time. I'm just hurrying might be. I'm a bit faster if I fast. Please let me know. Uh, and thank you for enjoying my season. Is it on? Ok, I'll carry on. Thank you so much for your support. Uh, I'm so much thankful and grateful to all of you. And there are a lot of additional advice for the parents know that you are lucky if your child asks for help, time and organ, I have repeated that you must be so much friendly with a child that they must feel like they can share with you all the information. And uh when they share the information is very much easy and comfortable, most young people don't tell their parents about bullying online or offline. You won't know until you get the full story starting with your child's perspective or with your child be there with your child.

There are two reasons why you will want to keep your child involved. Bullying and cyberbullying usually involve a loss of dignity or control over the social situation. And it can be very much frustrating and devastating in some situations to respond thoroughly, not fast, more than one perspective is needed sometimes uh whatever we have seen or gone through the process might not be the right. So you try to find out and aly the situation and what victims say helps most is to be hard. So the ultimate goal is restored self-respect and the greater resilience in your child. So the positive outcome is offer here from your child, whatever they want to share with you so that the things become so much easier and comfortable and the problems can be solved. What are the tips for protecting the keys and trains from the identity taped? There are a lot of times we are hearing about the identity tape of the kids. And normally what happens as a parent is that we love to share the photo of our uh child in the Facebook without the permission. So is it really fruitful s we take consent with our child in that case, we should, so these things make the identity taped.

So we should try to protect the child's identity and we have to know how our child's school protect student data, how our child's social security number is protected, how our child's personal information is being used and how is is my our child's device being secured enough or not?

So we should be very careful on the social media because social media is so much blessing nowadays that each and everything, even your family life, even your individual life has become the social life nowadays. So we should be very much a lot and we should make sure that our child is eating strong, secure and unique pass or be careful in the physical world to and not just with the strangers. Sometimes. What happened is that you even one personal people also can be strangers, child and youth can be the victim of their own relative, friend and so on the alert and save the youth and your child from being the vulnerable. And most often, what I have heard is from the parents is that about each and every time my child is playing all the video games and doing this and that so is to say the ground rule for playing the video game and unlocking the video game. What are the E sports? What are the, there are also the benefits of the video game, you know, so that type of benefit, you should be aware about a parent and building friendship with new friends is really very much interesting. And between the teammates and developing communication skill is also interesting. So you to try to help manage your child's gaming hobby by researching about the game, are the game they're playing really feasible. Uh Are they being habitual or not?

So you should try to have the idea about the gaming and regarding the digital reputation check list, search yourself on online, check your privacy setting, review your social media, post, review, who you follow and who follows you back. Think before you post and B all is so much positive with a positive attitude, attitude should be positive. Only the thing to be negative is the Corona antivirus in the two days old. And the two days we all are suffering from that. And while navigating the social media, you have to find out as far as concerned. What we have seen is that I have seen from the research that the most popular online platform among the teenagers is youtube, 85% Instagram, 72% Snapchat, 69% Facebook, 51% you get 32%. And nowadays, um tiktok is also becoming very much popular, so you should try to navigate from the social media. The anonymity of the terrain should be panned out so that either side should be stopped from the side being cyberbullied. There should be the distracts and preoccupation with the social media will distract from your homework in the family time, the contents will be planned out and the reputation should also be worked out. So what is digital parenting time? And again, we have talked a lot about the digital parenting, giving the consent and all these things. Um uh Sure, sure, I will join, I'll j I'll just share the presentation, I'll uh make the presentation of our in my linkedin.

Uh uh So if you follow my linkedin, um uh I'll share my linkedin content and then if you follow me, then I will just share the presentation. Or if you just let me know your email address, I'll just share with you the um presentation. So, so what is digital parenting last, but not least digital parenting is still a developing skill and the parents must understand that awareness is empowerment. As long as there are innovations in the take all and the more time you and your child spend with technology, the better you will get at it. Our aim is to ensure users become aware of the positive cyber etiquette that inserts also regular conversations on the topic, ensure that we stay up to date about what's happening on the internet. Giving and getting consent is good digital parenting in the technological arena. Stay safe, take care.

Thank you for hearing me. A big warm Namaste. We call Namaste for the gratitude in our Nele language. This is me and my son. I would like to pay a huge tribute and gratitude to you all. And I would like to thank the women Global women take conference. And uh moreover, Anna for uh this opportunity to share um my things and uh to have me in the floor with you is really a big asset for me. Thank you so much. Thank you so much for hearing.